Communication Ethics Between Children and Parents in the Perspective of the Qur'an

Abstract

This study aims to explore the communication ethics between children and parents from the perspective of the Qur'an, focusing on the interpretations found in Tafsir al-Azhar and Tafsir al-Mişbāh. The primary objective is to analyze the comparative interpretations of Surah Al-Isra’ [17:23] regarding communication ethics. This research is a library study that applies a scientific paradigm, treating the Qur'an as a general conceptual framework. A comparative approach, known as the muqāran method in tafsir studies, was used to analyze the data. The findings indicate that, according to Tafsir al-Azhar, Surah Al-Isra’ [17:23] emphasizes the prohibition of disrespectful speech, particularly in the relationship between children and parents. This ethical communication is viewed as a reflection of the principles of tauhid (the oneness of God), encouraging children to replace harsh or negative words with expressions of love and compassion. On the other hand, Tafsir al-Mişbāh underscores the significance of showing the utmost respect to parents, advocating for the use of the most respectful and courteous communication in interactions with them. Both interpretations agree on the importance of maintaining respectful communication, but they differ in the emphasis placed on specific aspects of that communication—Tafsir al-Azhar focuses more on avoiding disrespect, while Tafsir al-Mişbāh highlights the need for the highest level of respect. This comparative analysis provides valuable insights into the Qur’anic guidance on communication ethics between children and parents